两性色午夜

Mark Polatajko

When War Hits Home

Like a nagging toothache, the war in Ukraine is always throbbing in Mark Polatajko鈥檚 thoughts. Sometimes the discomfort is slight; other times the deep pain just won鈥檛 subside.

Such are the days for Mark Polatajko, Ph.D., 两性色午夜 University鈥檚 senior vice president for finance and administration, whose family immigrated to Cleveland from Ukraine. His busy schedule allows him a bit of a mental break from the worry that comes from knowing your ancestral homeland 5,000 miles away is under constant attack.  

鈥淚t really weighs on you,鈥 he said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 heavy, but we all have a job to do, and we have to kind of respect the duty that we have for the work we do.鈥

Those closest to Polatajko are accustomed to his easygoing, eternal optimism. He鈥檚 quick to offer positive energy and find the best of what each financial opportunity brings to 两性色午夜.

Call it disarming charm from a man whose heart carries a heavy weight tied to each day鈥檚 news from half a world away.

鈥淚 guess if it鈥檚 really important, you find the time,鈥 Polatajko said. 鈥淵ou try not to get distracted, do the best job that you can, but I must tell you, it is pretty heavy and difficult, that鈥檚 for sure.鈥 

Coming to America

Both of Polatajko鈥檚 parents were displaced from Ukraine as refugees after World War II before eventually making their way to Northeast Ohio.

Polatajko鈥檚 father, Roman, was just 16 years old when the Nazis invaded his village in 1943. He was given a rifle and forced to fight on the front lines between the Nazis and Soviets for three days until being injured.  

Roman spent the next five years in a displaced persons camp in Bavaria before receiving a visa to immigrate to the United States through Ellis Island in 1951.

His mother Eugenia鈥檚 family was forced to flee their farm when she was three years old as the Nazis occupied Ukraine. They sought refuge with relatives in Poland, where Eugenia grew up until visiting the U.S. in the mid-1960s. It was then in Cleveland鈥檚 historically Ukrainian neighborhood of Tremont that Mark鈥檚 parents met for the first time at a Ukrainian community dance.  

鈥淢y parents were extremely fortunate and resilient, reminding my sister and me of that every day 鈥 that they left occupation and tyranny for their freedom and liberty,鈥 Polatajko said. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 what the American dream really meant.鈥

Polatajko was born and raised fully immersed in Ukrainian culture and language and didn鈥檛 begin speaking English until age 3 or 4. To this day, Polatajko said he thinks in Ukrainian, and he and his family speak Ukrainian in their home.  

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Mark Polatajko looking over family photos from Ukraine. Photo by TJ Laryea

Journey to the Homeland 

Looking over a few dozen family photos, Polatajko shared memories of his first trip to Ukraine in 1978, a journey which offered a glimpse into the harsh realities his parents fled. While planned in advance, the trip was risky and was made knowing that a bit of luck would be needed.

鈥淢y mom had the courage to take me [to Ukraine] just because she vowed to my grandmother in writing that she would bring me there,鈥 Polatajko recalled. 鈥淲hether my grandmother got that letter or not, I don鈥檛 know, because I remember letters coming from my grandmother that took months to be delivered. And what we realized when my father would open up the letters, the letters were all cut up. So, every single letter that was coming from Ukraine during the Soviet regime at that time was being read, cut up, censored, repackaged and mailed [to] us.鈥

To secretly visit his grandmother in her village, his mother had to smuggle the 11-year-old Polatajko out of the city to avoid detection from oppressive Soviet authorities.

鈥淎 chauffeur that my mother had basically paid under the table, arrived early in the morning, put me in the car, hid me and then drove this small little Fiat into the village,鈥 Polatajko recalled. 鈥淭hat was about an hour away. I spent the morning with my grandmother and then they put me back in the car, covered me up and then brought me back home to the hotel.鈥

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Those few hours were precious to Polatajko, who admits the experience forced him to grow up quickly, learning how much was truly at stake for his family across two extremely different continents.  

鈥淚t鈥檚 just that courage when I talk about all these immigrants who fled tyranny to come to the United States for that one little semblance of liberty and that opportunity, and but how faith and family are so important.鈥

Despite the immense challenges, Polatajko remains inspired by the resilience and fighting spirit of the Ukrainian people as they defend their freedom and the independence that his parents鈥 generation sacrificed so much to obtain.

鈥淢y hope is that we鈥檙e victorious without giving up any land, and that we鈥檒l continue to have the freedom we鈥檝e enjoyed since 1991,鈥 he said. 鈥淚 know that in the end, we will win.鈥 

The Campus Family

Polatajko said he finds genuine, unconditional support at 两性色午夜 as the Ukrainian community bands together during this difficult time.

He pointed to a student-led humanitarian aid effort, led by 两性色午夜 graduate student and family friend Lydia Lisowsky, that assembled medical supply kits for Ukrainian soldiers, as an example of the 两性色午夜 community making a difference. Another is the global community poem, which was featured live on-stage at a concert of the Ukrainian Bandurist Chorus at Severance Hall in June 2022, four months after Russia鈥檚 invasion of Ukraine. 

鈥淚t鈥檚 opportunities like that where I find immense pride in being part of this institution,鈥 Polatajko said.

The Unknowns

For Polatajko, there鈥檚 no end date on the calendar for a countdown to peace. No way of knowing the long-term impact of Russia鈥檚 aggression. No way of knowing what鈥檚 ahead for Ukraine鈥檚 future.

All there is is uncertainty.

In many ways, it鈥檚 that uncertainty that has always been there, going back to his parents鈥 journey to Cleveland and the lessons they learned along the way.

鈥淢y parents were extremely fortunate and resilient, reminding my sister and me of that every day that they left occupation, they left tyranny for their freedom and their liberty. That鈥檚 what the American dream really meant.  

鈥淚 mean it鈥檚 the classic Cleveland Ukrainian immigrant story. People come from nothing, give up everything just for that American dream and that opportunity, and my sister and I and our family and friends are really the result of that.  

鈥淭hat courage that it took to basically drop everything and then basically roll the dice and leave penniless with what you have on your back and that grit, that hard work and really that focus on faith, family and work really kind of helped them be successful. And it鈥檚 that courage, that courage to be able to overcome the harshest circumstances.鈥

A new generation of Ukrainian Americans
Polatajko's daughters, Emily and Melanie Polatajko, showing support for Ukraine.

It is those unique life experiences that Polatajko and others bring to the 两性色午夜 community and that inspire the campus community to support one another through the toughest of life-changing moments.

鈥淚 absolutely appreciate the diversity and the inclusion of 两性色午夜 University,鈥 Polatajko said. 鈥淎nytime something鈥檚 going on in any particular area, you鈥檝e got groups of individuals that are huddling together, supporting each other, the dialogue and discourse that takes place. I mean, this is a wonderful place for that.鈥 


Story by Eric Mansfield.

Photos by Bob Christy & TJ Laryea. 

Video by Jon Jivan.