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The Drapes of Wrath

The Drapes of Wrath

I was proud to be a senior English major at 两性色午夜 University in 1971 and that my photograph would appear in the 1972 Chestnut Burr. But when I read the 鈥渋nstructions鈥 for having my picture taken for the yearbook, I was incensed. I had spent four years at KSU, experiencing May 4, the rise of Black United Students and the rumble of women鈥檚 liberation. I learned not only academic lessons at 两性色午夜, but gained a better understanding of the changing world and my own individuality.

And then I, like every other senior woman, was required to wear an ugly black drape for my photo, a uniform with no regard to one鈥檚 comfort level, personal tastes or consent. My father, a professional photographer, and my mother, an oil portrait painter, would never expect someone to wear something he or she disapproved of for a sitting.  

So I wrote a letter to The Daily 两性色午夜r, which appeared in the October 14, 1971 edition, under the headline 鈥淐oed objects to yearbook 鈥榙rape鈥欌:

While I must congratulate the Chestnut Burr for its originality and liberal content of KSU鈥檚 yearbooks in the past few years, I find it unbelievable that its editors have slighted women鈥檚 liberation.

Although a male senior is restricted to a suit and tie, he has a myriad of styles from which to choose in order to enhance his individuality.

But the poor female senior who wishes her picture in the Burr must bare her shoulders and appear in a low cut Zorro cape.

I, for one, would rather not have my picture taken than don such an unnatural, ridiculous costume. Jill Veleba  

I admit to having a few qualms after I saw the letter in print, just a few days before my photo appointment. Would the company and photographers who contracted with the school be upset? Would they vandalize my senior photo with a Groucho Marx moustache and glasses drawn with a black marker?

To the company鈥檚 credit, they rescinded the dress restriction for female students. I was elated.

I decided to play it cool, just show up on time for my photo session and not say a word about who I was. A smiling  photographer greeted me and pointed to a dressing screen where I could change into the drape. Not on your life. 

The photographer glared at me, looked at the name on my appointment card and snarled, 鈥淥h, you are the one who wrote the letter.鈥 To his credit, after that comment, he treated me like everyone else, and my senior picture came out just fine.

Not every woman chose to forgo the drape that year. Many preferred the traditional drape look, and that was fine. It was their choice, and that was the important thing鈥攖o have a voice in the matter.  

Almost five decades later, remembering the incident makes me smile. A number of women students had contacted me after the letter was published and thanked me for my one-woman campaign. 

Was that the most important victory for women at KSU that year? Of course not. Not even close. And I like to think I left a small mark on KSU in more significant ways. If nothing else, than by being an unofficial ambassador for my college all this time.

I cherish my Chestnut Burr, dust it off once in a while, look at the senior picture of a younger, thinner, no-gray-hair me and recall with humor the Great Drape Escapade. And here鈥檚 the other thing: like many liberated women on campus in the early 70s, I wasn鈥檛 wearing a bra under the dress I wore for my senior portrait. Simply scandalous. 鈥Jill Veleba Sell, BS 鈥72, Sagamore Hills, Ohio

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